*tantrum* i wish i were a su-lin. then men would come and help me disassemble furniture and cart heavy boxes and drive me to places and collect me and my bags at manchester at 5 in the morning. but no, i've got to be a minzhi and be expected to cope on my own. what really irks me is not even that i have to move by myself, but that if i were su-lin no one would leave me to it. i hate being only semi-self-sufficient. you've either got to be completely self-sufficient and need no one, or else you have to be utterly helpless and flutter about and people would be obliged to help you. yes i'm venomously angry today and i don't care who knows it.