i am SO INCREDIBLY PISSED with the girl upstairs. getting sexiled once in a while when you have a roommate is inevitable in dorm life, and maybe also understandable, but getting sexiled from the common bathroom is just outrageous. i try to go upstairs to fill my kettle but as soon as i push at the door it slams back in my face and a voice within says wait! and i stand in the corridor perplexed while another suitemate comes to her room door and tells me she couldn't get in either. then a few minutes later, the door opens and suitemate in bathrobe and boyfriend obviously just dressed walks out, without apologising for keeping people waiting and without so much as a blush. i am SO PISSED you have no idea. first of all, i don't care if boys stay over and use the bathroom but if you're in our bathroom, either get dressed in the shower and get out, or if the shower is too wet, you move over to the toilet cubicle and dress there, or else you can go back to your girlfriend's room. you don't stand in the middle of the bathroom at the sink area stark when anyone can just walk in. there are afterall five other girls who live here who are not interested in seeing your body, and it isn't as if you look like brad pitt. yes occasionally there are half-dressed boys brushing their teeth in there in the mornings, but that's okay. i just say hello and get my own toothbrush. but that's the second thing i'm mad about, how can you keep the people who actually live here from using any part of the bathroom while you take time to struggle into your briefs and powder your nose? and this wouldn't be the first time condom wrappers are found in the shower after he's been to stay. hello! we all have our own rooms, why hog the bathroom blatantly for some water frolic!!! sure, everyone needs his allotment of kink, but why the heck can't it be in the middle of the night. nope. it has to be sunday noon when everyone else has just woken up and want to wash up. *fume*