we had reunion dinner at the hospital. my uncle couldn't eat of course, so it had to be something he wouldn't eat anyway, so as not to make him feel he was missing out. pizza and garlic bread and chicken wings, and apple juice out of a marigold (or was it fruit tree?) packet. and we laohei-ed - my aunt found a large aluminum tray with very high sides, and we put it on the rolling table and pushed it all the way up to where my uncle was lying where he can see all the action and we all got around the bed and tossed. of course it was a pitiful i mean having pizza hut for reunion dinner and standing around eating out of paper plates, but oh my dears, i loved everybody in the room so.